Meeting a soul mate is a universal desire. Here are the signs to watch to know if he or she is the right person by our side
Meeting a soul mate is an experience that comes from physics.
Try putting a drop of oil in a glass of water: no matter how much you shake them, the two liquids will remain well separated from each other.
But take some mercury droplets and place them close enough to each other: the cohesive force will make them attract until they merge into each other.
There is an affinity between certain elements that there is not between others and in some cases it is a perfect affinity.
Finding a soul mate simply means this: discovering the mysterious affinities that bind us to another person, often very different from us.
When we find "our" drop of mercury, it is as if two separate halves come together to make up the whole.
This is the soul mate, to whom we are united by a mysterious alchemy and which makes us say: how strange, I just met you and it is as if I have known you forever! In that instant, something unites the other person in a very strong bond.
But what a soul mate is not.
Many times we have believed that "she" was the right person, the one we have always been waiting for, the soul mate ...
Then, however, reality bitterly denied us: how did we fail to notice the self-deception? To know if the person we have just met or who has been around us for some time is the right one, there are signs to observe.
The soul mate is not a person with the same interests or opinions as ours, indeed it is often just the opposite: the attraction that is created is much deeper and more mysterious and does not concern the superficial layers of the personality.
The soul mate does not confirm our expectations: it often has a different character from ours, it surprises us and displaces us. But meeting her transforms our life without any need for effort on our part.
The soul mate is not the one who compensates for our psychological shortcomings: she is not a crutch or a nurse.
We now come to the "symptoms" that leave no doubt about having found the right person.
The soul mate is the person capable of arousing an immediate, deep and "ancient" affinity, as if he had always known each other.
A relationship is built with her made up of secret correspondences involving the two partners, of harmony. We are on the same wavelength, we understand each other with a glance.
The pleasure of being together never becomes an addiction or an obsessive attachment, on the contrary it stimulates the freedom of the other and makes him grow and evolve.
With a soul mate there is no need to do or be anything other than what one does or is: it is a relationship in which one must not act. Finding it is like feeling really at home ...
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